Cheerful? I know you're talking mostly about other people, but don't I deserve an asterisk? I'm anything but cheerful. :-P Non-judgmental should be taken with a grain (or a few pounds) of salt too.

*snerk* Consider yourself duly asterisked! However grumpily you may address things, though, you don't give me any shit about pursuing my sexual and romantic life in the way I want, and that matters a lot to me.

Most men don't "fuck like men", more bad stereotypes at work.

Amen. I got the impression from how she worded it that she feels the same way.