moominmuppet | Random thought on enjoyable elements of community

I like the opportunity for exchange of sexual energy with seemingly incompatible people sometimes even more than compatible. There's the intriguing possibility of being surprised, but as a rule things generally stays less serious (flirting or mutual appreciation, or maybe casual play), when less serious is what I need. When I'm out of emotional spoons it's fun without being overwhelming in its potentialness. And it's pleasantly thinky for times when I'm more in the mood for mental masturbation than physical. (I crave new thoughts about dynamics and interactions and sexuality like I crave touch and orgasms) I like stretching to understand (if not always participate in) new kinks, and I love when people give me insight into their experience in some way. So I don't want a community full of people whose kinks and fetishes and personalities all mesh with mine. I'd get laid more often, but I'd get so much less out of the experience as a whole. Thankfully, there's no risk of that happening anytime soon. ;)