Another recap from the future...

When I first heard of the premise for Swing Vote; the fate of the US, nay the Free World, lies in the hands of one uninformed voter; I thought to myself: Damn! That is going to be one scary movie. It’s every Ivy Leaguer’s worst nightmare. Moments later I was told that it was actually a comedy (groan), starring Kevin Costner (double groan), with a 90% chance of preachy-ness (is death an option?), and a wise beyond her years child (save me lord, save me).
So I entered Costner, election comedy, crazy mix-up, genius child, life lessons, and election year into MOVIECODE and here is what came out.

Linguistics question

So, I'd written a post on my sex filter that brought up a concept that I just can't seem to find a word for. No one else I've talked to seems able to, either. I'm frustrated enough I'm making a new, public post in hopes that someone has a word bouncing around in their head that actually matches this:

(from various conversations, comments, bits of my other post, etc)
It's driving me nuts. We have terms for every obscure fetish under the sun. Why can't I think of a word for the particular fun of "getting away with" being all wound up, and getting oneself wound up intentionally in places where it's not appropriate to display it. It's not the same as exhibitionism, because the fun is largely in the secrecy, I think. Or at least, I'm an exhibitionist, and I like this, and they don't feel the same to me. It's certainly no unusual thing, if anything, I'd say it's an incredibly common part of sex play, so why can't I think of a word for this particular craving/fetish/lust/whatever?

Anyway, can you think of a word for that? Or a reason we don't have one?

But this did occur to me:
re: whether it's part of/related to exhibitionism:
But it does seem related, since it's fundamentally about how other people's presence changes dynamics...

Yay! Marn posted a question about it for me, too

Cryptoeroticism?

So, I think serpentseye has come up with my favorite solution to my previous linguistic question. Cryptoeroticism!

What do you think?