silenceleigh writes about it at length in her advice column journal here. Since that journal is intended as an advice column, I am sure she would be willing to answer more questions, too.
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Date: 2006-04-20 06:19 pm (UTC)(You can unscreen this comment, since all it does is link to a public post.)